Stop judging people. Just stop doing it, and you gonna be much happier!
Sometimes we all do come across real bithes, bastards and assholes, but twice as often one tags people bad just because their way of thinking does not correlate with his.
I always tend to justify persons that hurt me or that just annoy me, but I'm not an angel myself. Thanks God, my husband is sure of the opposite!
"Some of them want to use you,
Some of them want to get used by you."
Annie Lenox was right. Just it costs so much to start treating this fact as just a fact, nothing esle. Not as a disastrous breach of justice than has happened to you.
Nonetheless, when you are a user, you treat it in I-could-not-but-do-it way. "No pasa nada," as the Spaniards say, I haven't commited any crime. This is just life.
So when you are wise enough to unfix your inflamed look and distract yourself as thinking:
Ok, today I'm used, no, say, I helped somebody, but tomorrow it will be my turn to dinner with Ms Fortune,
you gonna get calmer, richer, stronger, and feel an enormous pile of relief.
Try it. I do it, intend, as I'm still not a guru, but that helps.
Just don't think of the White Bear.
